Pick the one conflict or series of related conflicts that you will both talk about. Next, answer the questions, and any spin-off questions you might have, about the conflict process. A conflict is any disagreement, fight, minor/major infraction, knockdown-dragout, etc. A series of conflicts might be something that you argue about over and over (you have the same conflict topic, but you’ve had the disagreement multiple times). Questions to be asked and answered (please add more questions and answers of your own). Questions: Who/what started the conflict?

nflict you have had in your relationship. First, pick the one conflict or series of related conflicts that you will both talk about. Next, answer the questions, and any spin-off questions you might have, about the conflict process. A conflict is any disagreement, fight, minor/major infraction, knockdown-dragout, etc. A series of conflicts might be something that you argue about over and over (you have the same conflict topic, but you’ve had the disagreement multiple times). Questions to be asked and answered (please add more questions and answers of your own). Questions: Who/what started the conflict? How did the conflict unfold? (Who was involved, what did they do/say (roles), how did each of us feel (emotions)? What does all this mean for the relationship? Was the conflict resolved? Why or why not? What conclusion did we reach? Why did we choose this conflict? What about it was significant to us? If you chose a recurring topic: Why does this topic keep coming up? What are the root(deeper) issues in this situation? How could this potentially be resolved?